come what may
Work’s been pretty relaxed for me this week. Spending most of my time in front of the computer browsing pointless and useless websites, playing Temple Run (read: addictive), doddling, and also, thinking about my future. Yeah, I’ve been very slack this week. BUT only this week! And thus, only left with today gahhhhh. It’s for the better.
So, yeah, thinking about my future. Damn kiasu right? Pfffft. But the more I thought about it (have been thinking + drawing up a timeline etc.. now I think I’m super lame), the more stressed and worried I get, and so I stopped bothering about it. And threw my so-called timeline aside. Only aside, not away, because it may come to use one day. Hur hur.
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I’ve come to realise that nothing is predictable. You could plan to finish your training (in my case lah), get married, earn this amount, buy a house and make it a home (darn huge investment), maybe migrate, have kids etc at different stages of your life, but this is only planning, it may not happen the way you want it to. Events may happen along the way, hindering you from finishing what you started or even start pursuing it, got to think for the other half (if you’ve got one), money, and how to do it to the best of yourself and your family. I’m not saying we shouldn’t plan, it is good, at least you have a mindset of what you want to achieve. I’m just saying things may happen differently!
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I think people who have a good career, a family, are healthy and lives comfortably are like superheroes. I don’t know how they do it. I’ve always wanted kids and take care of them full-time when they’re teeny weeny, but now I think about the PAIN I have to go through (maybe x 2/3/4?!?! don’t get me started. I WILL have epidural no excuses), the money I need to use, the loss of income if I drop my career (for the time being), how to be a BETTER person for new VIPs in my life!
I really don’t wanna grow up. Why do we have to worry about so many issues?
I’m just gonna leave this thought aside and procrastinate. Maybe I’ll find my solution as the issues come lol.
I’m just whiny, I guess.
i know one that does pretty high teas in auckland! i still haven’t been cos i think it’s quite pricey at around $40 too but so much pretty detail!!
btw i like your hair colour in your PS post! hahaah tempted to go dye it after go au natural for a whole yr….
oh it left comment on wrong post! hahaha
i’m gonna go research and try out some other high teas arnd welly! u shld try high tea @ langham hotel!! i’ve been there w my friends its not too bad!
yep i been there! it was the best so far of the ones i been to at auckland lol. but SO much food! i cant believe the desserts came in a separate trolley!
yeah!!! couldn’t finish at all! and only managed to try 3 cakes and couldn’t get anymore down was so disappointed!!!!